Style it with Bhavs

Nourishing oneself is extremely important. Your physical, mental and emotional well being depends a lot upon how you treat yourself. While most of my posts have an ingredient of self enhancement, this one is specifically dedicated to the story behind my long (and sometimes wild) hair. Having put my hair through a series of treatments that initially gave them the smoothness and luster that I always longed for, left behind a bitter feeling when post these chemical treatments I would see my lovely locks lifeless. I went on to repeat these treatments but that only made things worse. Hence there came a time when I decided never to put my hair through these grinding processes again. It’s been years that I have worked upon getting my hair back to its natural bounce and thankfully they’re quite healthy now. However it takes me a lot of time and efforts to maintain them and that includes regular oiling and using a mild shampoo and a good conditioner. I also regularly apply hair masks

Did someone just thank you for being kind and helpful? Or you read a comment on your Facebook timeline which says that you’re the best? If yes then raise your collar for it is indeed a moment of pride and happiness; you just got certified for those attributes! Easy isn’t it? Day in and day out we keep exchanging these paperless ‘certificates’ with each other however, we usually call them ‘compliments’ or ‘appreciation’. While praises have their own sweet place in everyone’s life and earning them can really boost up your confidence, I feel sometimes they turn into a crutch. Whether it’s a piece of art or your own heart and mind, you’re always vulnerable to falling into the trap of praises where you start seeking approval for anything and everything.   But the world is not full of sugar there are a lot of spices too! So where you see a dozen thumbs up signs, you may get a lot of ‘thumbs down’ as well. Now the question is, if praises take you on a high, does criticism work as a