The Girl Boss Diary- 2

Believe that you’re worth it,

Because you really are.

Life is like a vast ocean- an ocean full of dreams that are like small beautiful islands scattered everywhere. Our journey entails going from one island to another, stopping at each island and taking in its beautiful view before we proceed to the next one. The roller coaster that life is, our journey from one island to another is not always smooth. There are tides and undercurrents that sometimes aid while at times obstruct our journey. When the tides and undercurrents go against our path, we get two choices- to swim against the hurdles to reach our destination or go with the tide. If we go with the tide, we may reach at a place that may not be the one where we wanted to be. So then begins the story of complaints, dissatisfaction and helplessness.

When it comes to goals, I believe there is nothing such as ‘helplessness’. Wherever we are, whatever we face is a result of those continuous choices that we make at every step. At every step, you can choose to go with the tide
and let it direct your journey, or keep going where you want to go, whether the journey is smooth or difficult. If you decide to go with the tide, you have to accept where it takes you, for it was a choice you made yourself. You can choose your career, your social life, your health, your lifestyle, your savings and a lot more. If your job doesn’t further your career goals, change it. If your present set of skills doesn’t support your career growth, learn and get better. If you’re not losing weight, change your diet and exercise more. If a bad habit or an addiction is taking away your health, chuck the bad habit. It may not be easy, but that’s the ocean of life; tides and undercurrents may not always favor you. But if you want to reach somewhere in particular, you have to keep going. 

This way you can choose most the things in your life, including people. If a person is doing more harm than good (physical, mental or emotional harm), distance yourself from that person. It may not always be possible to keep such people out of your life completely, for they could be your business associates, your colleagues or even your relatives. But you can always distance them from your heart and mind. Choose to be surrounded by people who make you feel better, who add love and value to your life.

Once you realize that life is all about a game of choices, you will stop feeling helpless. ‘Here & Now’ is the right place and time to begin being the master, the ‘Boss’ of your own life.

So this was another collection of thoughts from my side. I hope you all liked it. Well talking about the pictures, for those who know me well, will understand this look completely- the tomboy that I am at times. A white shirt, blue denims and white sneakers are definitely wardrobe essentials. These classic three when put together give perfectly cool and casual look! The dark green (almost black) top gives a mysterious touch to the ensemble when paired with black shades. The make-up has sharply contoured smokey eyes with black and peach. To give a sharper look, you can opt for contoured cheeks as well. 

This ‘beware’ look is just a reflection of my mind when I stand strong to face hurdles, for the Girl Boss doesn’t like feeling helpless.

Before winding up this post, I want to thank you all for appreciating my write-ups. I feel really very happy when people tell me that my posts inspire them.

Thankyou!

Happy Styling and Happy Living!

Love,
Bhavs

Outfit Details:

Shirt: Jealous 21
Denims: ONLY
Top: some Flea market
Shoes: Pantaloons
Shades: ALDO
Watch: Tommy Hilfiger